When the official part of the wedding is over, everyone gathers around the table and starts offering toasts and wishes to the newlyweds. In the middle of the congratulations section, the bridal couple addresses the parents and invited guests. In the event that you need to give a speech, the groom should prepare in advance. As wedding moderators, we know exactly what we are talking about. Rely on our experience.
The speech should not only be beautiful, but come from the heart and soul. Borrowing a flowery and thoughtful speech, learning it and reading it out loud will not impress you. Write them yourself, add some humor, say words of gratitude and sincere respect to your loved ones. Then cause a sensation, even if you forget a few sentences or mix up the words.
Don’t talk too long, the guests will get bored. A few sentences will suffice, as long as the sincerity is there. In order not to lose the thread at the decisive moment, rehearse in front of the mirror. Pay attention to gestures and pronunciation, pay attention to how long the speech lasts. If it drags on for more than 4-5 minutes, shorten it a bit.
Start with a greeting, remember a few fun stories, and finish with a toast to complete your speech.
Another possibility: Tell us about your future together. To create an atmosphere of trust, confess your strong and deep feelings to your wife, confirm your words with life stories. To keep guests interested, structure the speech so people can easily imagine what you’re talking about.
If you’re feeling embarrassed, tell an appropriate joke before your speech to lighten the mood.
Break your speech into three sections: introduction, body, and conclusion. The first and last parts should be strong because they will be remembered by people.
Don’t rely on alcohol before the performance, treat yourself to a small drink to relax. Otherwise the pronunciation will be unclear.
When you speak, your gaze should be penetrating and open. When you talk about the bride, look lovingly into her eyes. When you speak to your parents, look at them with respect. In this case, the speech will have a stronger effect. The main thing is not to get emotional prematurely so that you get your message across completely.
Don’t forget to mention the parents and relatives who helped you. It will be appropriate and touching to mention this in the speech.
Before the speech, write a cheat sheet – a short synopsis, after which it will be easy for you to remember everything you want to say.
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